Let’s talk about Devin

Something is off about this man!! Suspicious as hell!!

-He isn’t being 100% forthcoming about his debt and financial struggles -He was fluffing his job titles to Virginia’s mom to appear more impressive -I’m not convinced it was just ibuprofen he was addicted to -He was emotionally avoidant in the pods while calling out Virginia for being emotionally avoidant (felt like the beginnings of gaslighting in the relationship from someone with avoidant attachment style) -He wasn’t forthcoming about his political views -He was condescending regarding her faith and family’s political views -His sister says “what’s wrong with THESE GIRLS?” when Virginia says no at the altar so I suspect he does not have a good track record of being a good partner -Hiding a wedding present check from your wedding partner????

I think he’s an insecure man child who knew he’s punching up with Virginia and was trying to hold onto her any way possible. Even if he was well intentioned, he is in no way ready to be married if he can’t be honest to himself and about himself. He has a lot of growing up to do. Good riddance and good job, Virginia!