Nick Dorka isn't who you think he is.

Hi everyone,

I am making this post because I would like to share some information about Nick Dorka. I normally wouldn't care to share information about someone who is so irrelevant in my life but since seeing him last, he's shown his true colors and I think that I should shed light on this in case he goes around disrespecting other women as well. To put it bluntly, Nick embodies the traits of an insecure man whose inflated ego, probably fueled by his "post-show persona", has made him into (unless he already was) a misogynistic, arrogant brat. I felt sorry for him because of how Hannah treated him (though her behavior isn't justified either), but now I see that he is nowhere near what the public thinks of him.

First off, he does not have his own place. I don't know why he told the media and said that he bought his own place in Tyson's but that is a complete lie. He is renting his place. He gave me sink water because he didn't have any filtered water, and he also said that he orders Uber eats 3x a day. Hannah was right - dude has been babied from living at home and lacks basic adulting skills.

The second time I met up with him, he made it a point to say that he cooks often and meal preps - it was weird, as if he wanted to change the narrative he had told me the previous time about ordering Uber eats all the time. His true colors came out before I went to meet up with him. He asked to meet up and said he would call me an Uber. When I expressed that I was uncomfortable taking an Uber so late at night, but would go see him if he picked me up, he caught an attitude and said "whatever." I was appalled at his entitlement. He also made misogynistic statements during our hangout and it was so telling in regard to how fragile his ego is. I won't go into much detail, but what he said came off as defensive statements regarding his performance in bed. He would shift the blame to women saying that we are more emotional and that it is a "boyfriend's job" to help the woman finish. I can say more, but I won't. You would think that someone who is "contractually obligated" not to date anyone and has begged me not to mention our meetups would act with more tact, but instead he’s only shown me how insecure he is.

All in all, yes, maybe Nick is a victim of Hannah's abusive behavior, and we can have empathy for him - but he is not the "good guy" that the media paints him as. He’s a man-child who needs to grow up and do some real self-work.

Also, he sucked at his job and was no help at all in helping me find my apartment.

EDIT: You guys are hilarious with the sink water comments 😂. I appreciate them tho, because it does put this into perspective for me. Obviously, I am biased because of all of the other shit I put up with him but in hindsight I can see how my comment about the sink water comes off as privileged. Regardless, my point was that he does not have his shit together and the sink water was a bad example of that.