We decided to move to her country this year but...

Hi everyone I am M(27) she is F(26) and after 2 happy years of LDR we end up deciding to move to her country which is Turkey. I am a guy from Europe and as you can expect make the decition to move was not easy but I ended up accepting to move late this 2025.

There is one thing tho that is making me unconfortable, which is she said we probably cannot live together (with the approval of her family) until we get married and also she is more open-minded/european side of view of this topic so she doesn't want to get married yet.

Basically she is giving me with the only option to make myself go live ALONE in a flat in her city and that she will come to visit me sometimes which from my european mind is so crazy and wild, I feel I am already making so much effort to go from my country and long distance for so long and now we cannot live together.

I already told her this and she is taking it as a normal thing which might be normal there but is something unacceptable for me.

I am searching for some advise if possible on how can I approach this to her and her family.