Am I Overreacting?

At some point, it’s gotta be OK to just admit you don’t like your MIL and don’t want them being close to their grandkid. I’m actually surprised all these comments are agreeing. Mind you, all MIL said was “I want to..” not “I’m going to..” which even then is not a big deal.. also what happened to having an ounce of tact in these situations? I bet she comes back with an update about how she emailed MIL stating how they’ll be going VVVLC and etc.. and this is coming from someone with a monster-in-law. I wish these were my only problems with her 👎