Why is our society like this ?! ☹️

I was talking to a far cousin who is from the states🇺🇸..he failed a test with terrible marks ..he was sad but his reason for being sad was that he didn't give his 100 percent when I asked him what about the people, the society,the family..he replied who gives a fuck..then mujhe realise hua ki hum log as a society itna intrested rehte hai ek dusre ke results mai like shit man ..bahar sab apne apne life pe focused rehte hai..yaha ek Banda kisi exam ki prep kar Raha hai toh pura khandaan ko pata rehta hai iska result aane wala hai..chalo paadho ab ..yahi bolna tha hehe