am i doomed

hey everyone, i've been feeling really down lately about my body and how i felt before all my ic/pfd symptoms started. I keep wishing that i knew this was gonna happen so that i could avoid it. I've been to doctors, gynos, urologists and they all tell me some nonsense like i should drink more water or that all my test results look normal when something is clearly wrong. living with this is so uncomfortable and annoying, i don't know what else to do and i just feel like i'm doomed for life.

i've come here to see if anyone has found a way to live with ic/pfd symptoms so that it doesn't feel so unbearable. i just want my body to feel like it used to :(