From the wife’s perspective, a comment about size
I’ve read a few posts and comments about size in the lifestyle but there hasn’t been much that’s been discussed about it from the woman’s perspective.
I think every person is different but for me, most of this is about building real sustainable connection through physical and sexual confidence. The partners I’ve been with that continually tell me they’re going to rock my world because they’re hung tend to have been some of the worst experiences we’ve had.
Being hung will make a difference but being respectful and caring and giving will make a bigger difference. I personally have to be in the mood for a bigger partner and I think some of the intrigue about larger partners comes from my husbands “kink” of me being with a larger partner.
I overall prefer somebody that knows how to fuck and give and care then somebody that’s huge but that’s just me!