Why only men are prophets ? Why are women considered "bad ruleers"?

If you see my post history you know I have trouble with women in islam and Men being like the default gender. I have came across a tiktok ( I know what you will say, get off of it but no they're kinda right) about how post religions specifically abrahamic religions are against women and Honestly I think they were right. The woman said multiple things but one of them being how only men are prophets in religions, how women are told they can't rule but like look at the world now? The wars, pedophilia, massacre, genocides, capitalism, toxic beauty standards, racism, misogyny and half of history's bad events where when men were ruling.

In islam it says women can't rule, how men are above us and specially husbands, How men encouragement to Jannah is multiple wives and us is just "You'll get whatever you want" I feel like im conditioned to believe this islam is true because im born muslim and I have no other choice but to practice but I don't think I want to anymore nor do I wanna believe in that. What add to the fact is that I been struggling for years and years and nothing good is given to me but the main issue is women. I will never accept those things just because someone said there's a celestial being in the sky saying we have to. Idk, I hate it lol. Ramadan is coming and im debating even participating or acting as if im fasting to not bother my mom.