Reassurance for intimacy with HS
I’ve seen a few posts recently about worrying about intimacy regarding HS and I thought I should share my experience.
I, (25F) have been dealing with this condition continuously since I was very young (about 13) and I remember feeling extremely grossed out by my HS and having so much worries about how it would be perceived.
Needless to say, I was completely wrong. While my groin area is covered in scares/ active abscesses, I have never had a bad experience.
As someone said on here before “No guy should care about anything else that having a naked girl in their bed” and that is exactly my experience. They usually don’t notice it at first and if they did they never mention it to me until I did it myself. They were all understanding and didn’t really care.
People are way less harsh that we are with ourselves and if you didn’t already know:
This condition means you still are; Lovable, attractive, clean and entitled to a happy and free sexual life if that’s what you want <3
And while I am a woman that is all true for all genders!