Confusion about how I got it - showing some ignorance

In July 2023, I was diagnosed with HSV1 on my rectum. I always get my outbreaks there. I'm curious how I got HSV1 there. Here's where I show my ignorance: 1. Does herpes show up where you got infected or can I just show up anywhere? I've heard conflicting information from doctors. 2. I have ulcerative proctits - an inflammatory disease that impacts the rectum. Would logic stand that that could be why I'm getting outbreaks there? 3. How long can it take for your first outbreak? I haven't had anyone's face in that area in a decade. 4. If I have HSV1, is it more likely that I got it from a mouth cold sore? Thanks!