Rory’s treatment of Shane (Jess’s gf)

Is this scene very cringe to anyone else? I mean Rory had already left Jess hanging and told him off at the market, which was already so petty. But then she takes things out on this girl? Seems totally uncalled for. I generally think of Rory as a people pleaser and genuinely caring, but I’ve been rethinking on this watch through (treatment of Jess, treatment of Dean, treatment of her mom, treatment of her grandparents, treatment of Paul).