Dating Advice

I’m hitting some dating fatigue, tinder people don’t really answer, Grindr feels kinda silly to use to look for love haha. I find bars are too loud and too fast paced to have a real conversation with someone. If anyone has suggestions on how to meet guys please let me know. Haha also this is not a desperation post more so curious how other guys have successfully found long term partners.

Also dms are open, I’m 24 5’11” 170lbs bottom. Ideally looking for a monogamous relationship, with a guy who’s 24-30. Big fan of tall guys with facial hair;)