Dating feels impossible

I’m almost 30 and still unsure whether I want children. I know for sure that I never want to be pregnant, so if I were to have kids in the future, adoption would be the only option. I’m really struggling with dating because it seems like every man I meet definitely wants children. How do you even find someone who’s genuinely okay with both having kids or not having them? Has anyone had luck meeting a guy who doesn’t have a firm stance either way?