Genuine question. How do i get into this game? *spoilers maybe*

I feel like I missing out on something special. Never was into souls like games but i like to get into this game so much.

I played it for a couple of hours, can't say i enjoyed it as much as i liked to enjoy it because i felt like it was boring. I killed 4 bosses or more, one with a lot of arms, a big one in a dungeon, a dragon near the magic scool or something and one scary boss that you reach after going in a coffin and go down a pink lake and more i cant remember. I don't know what to do after defeating bosses so i just run around till i find something. How do i really get into this game? I like the memes, the lore, the characters, graphics, gameplay looks cool but when im playing i just feel bored. I uninstalled and reinstalled like 4 times