Best ANC buds for dual Android/Apple?

I've got a Pixel 7a and an iPad Pro. The phone gets way more use but I'm looking to upgrade to an ANC option from my Pixel Buds A series. While they've been fine (they were free with the phone), they're certainly not the best.

Looking for recommendations on the best options for around 200ish. I've considered both brands' respective ANC offerings (P-Buds Pro and AirPods Pro) but purchasing either of those means giving up features on the other platform. But that also brings up a point -- will 3rd party options just be missing those features anyway?

I'd looked at refurb pairs of the Sony XM5 earbuds as well as the Bose QC Ultra as well. Going to be taking a 9hr flight across the pond soon and want to get some good ANC.