"Leading friends on"

hellooooo enfps!!!

i saw a post on here a while ago that said something along the lines of "ENFPs treat strangers like friends, friends like best friends, best friends like lovers..(etc)" I agree with it (aswell as alot of other enfps in the comment section of that post)

but honestly.. i find that this becomes a problem with friends of the opposite gender, i constantly feel like im leading male friends on, even though i treat them just like any of my other friends. it kind of sucks because some of my guy friends think i am exclusively that way towards them, and proceed to get mad at me when i invite them to hang out with other friends of mine (who i treat the same way infront of them) :(

I like to make it clear that im being "lovey" in only a friendly way yet im still met with the same problem, i love my friends sooooooo muuuchhhh and i dont wanna lose any of them but honestly this sucks ass lol.

anyways lmk if u have the same problem!! and if u have a loophole around this please share ur wisdom love u guys!!!