Chinese donghuas are bad to health

I mean it. Except a VERY FEW(like soul land, btth, record of mortals journey etc)...all the other chinese donghu are complete trash. Its not the story itself ..yes the story makes it no good either but what my main problem with this donghuas are how they treat their characters. Its stupid and so one dimensional and ..to say.. simping. I wouldnt be writing this if not to let out my frustration of countless hours wasted on this trash donghuas. For example, almost every donghua have this male mc that just like being masochist and get beated or humiliated by the girls...oh and i should mention how lol in almost every chinese donghua there is this cold fmc that gives cold look to the mc everytime and the mc is like "hey i just found my favourite princess" ..i just lost my cool yesterday night when i was watching this recent donghua..called "fallen spirit master". I usually now a days look up comments or fandom sites before watching tk know if i will suffer watching the donghua or not. But this was recently released so not much info is available on sites. Anyway i start watching becaue3 the premise seemed interesting. And i found the first few episodes really good...the mc was a assassin and all. Things started to go south in episode 8 or 9(episode numbering is a mess in this donghua). Well the usual stuff..one of the fmc bullies the male...and the other fmc ..well..just tries to stop her ...(after the mc almost dies in the process of saving her and her sect)..she was not even angry... Actually its not even the bullying that angers me..but the fact that 98 percent of these MCs will not take revenge on them...but in the process fall in love with them and start simping...if the bully would have been a male...you can be sure the mc will make his life a regret if not kill him(atleast most of the time) but with females i have lost all hope ..huh this post is just a mean to vent my anger and frustration...i am never starting any donghua ever again...i will keep on watching the new episodes of btth though ..its really good.