There are no good dogs, only good owners.
Dog lovers: "There are no bad dogs, only bad owners!"
Dog: jumps on everyone, steals their food, barks at passerby
Dog lovers: "You must be a bad owner!"
Dog owner: (mortified) "I promise you, even if I am a bad owner, I never taught my dog to do that! He just does it on his own!"
Dog lovers: "That's your fault. You're a bad owner because you aren't stopping him from doing what he's doing."
Dog owner: "Wait, so I'm a bad owner if I don't stop my dog from being bad?"
Dog lovers: "Yes, precisely."
Dog owner: "So he's a bad dog, and I have to force him to be good or I'm a bad owner."
Dog lovers: "Wait, no, that can't be true, because there are no bad dogs."
Dog owner: "So is my dog being bad or is he not being bad? Pick one."
Dog lovers: "Uh...um...he's being bad, I guess, but it's not his fault, it's yours!"
Dog owner: "And why is that?"
Dog lovers: "Because you're not stopping him!"
Dog owner: "So if I let him do what he wants to do, I'm a bad owner."
Dog lovers: "Um...yeah."
Dog owner: "So he wants to be bad, and I have to stop him at every turn or I get all the blame for it?"
Dog lovers: "Yeah."
Dog owner: "So he's a bad dog-"
Dog lovers: "THERE ARE NO BAD DOGS, ONLY BAD OWNERS!!!"
Make it make sense.