Have you ever been targeted for your larger Natural or Lab Diamond piece of Jewelry?

Hello all. I’m a seasoned jeweler with backgrounds in different parts of the retail world. I have sold hundreds of 5+ carat gemstones, (diamonds and emeralds mainly). My S/O asked me what size diamond I want for my engagement ring and I let him know about my appreciation for larger stones. I’d ideally want a 9 or 10 carat Radiant or Oval Diamond set in platinum. But I’m nervous about the practicality and safety of wearing such a piece.

My question is for anyone who owns larger gemstone jewelry and wears it frequently.

Do you ever feel unsafe or that you are being watched or “followed” while wearing your jewelry in public? Has this trend of stealing jewelry off someone died down? What is your best advice/stories?