Girlfriend thinks IP is a genocide

I was out for an early valentines dinner with my girlfriend of 3 years and IP gets brought up. I say “and yeah it’s not really a genocide” and she LOSES it. We leave pretty soon after and get called disgusting and abhorrent in the car on the way home.

She said to get my facts straight before I talked to her again so was wondering what would be the most clear and concise arguments to show her it’s not a genocide? I feel like it’s too late to say yeah you’re right and move on.

When I was saying “they’ve only killed 50,000 since October 7th” and felt like a guy saying really 6 million?