Your parents are not your real parents and this is your family

Title. Has anyone experienced this too?

"Your dad is only your biological dad", "This is your real family" - or now, when distancing: "Come back home".

I have been experiencing this kind of pressure which I would expect rather in a real cult than in a "normal" religion. There has been a lot of manipulation and abuse and this cultish strategy to get you farther from your real parents (who are anyway not worthy). I wonder where did the commandment "Honor your father and your mother" disappear? Well, maybe it actually isn't applicable when the members of your religion are your real family.

I am not sure how much I want to go into detail here but I got a "new dad" there, who was supposed to act like my buddy to become more familiar with the religion before I can actually attend the weekly sessions. It definitely went from being buddy to something... more abusive (not sexu*lly, but manipulative).

Happy to read your experience if you have similar or if you maybe felt similar despite it not being said outwardly like in my case.