Would you be willing to leave a partner if everything else is perfect, but you only have meh sex every three months if that? If it was because of a chronic medical condition?

Edit to clarify: I’m a woman, we’re gay. She’s my gf, not my wife. She’s 24, I’m 25. I’m really doing everything I can to help. I don’t know what else to do.

That they keep putting off getting help with? It would completely blow up your life, your friends would probably distance themselves and your family would never forgive you.

It’s endometriosis. Any kind of contraction hurts her uterus so any sexual touch scares her. She’s willing to take care of me but it’s sometimes meh sex because she’s scared of getting aroused.

She wants an IUD but is afraid of the pain. Which I COMPLETELY understand. I’ve offered to do everything I can to help, take the entire day off just to take care of her and transport. Do a half day the next day to make sure she’s ok. I really want her to have it because she’s in crippling pain during her periods and this would help relieve that for FIVE YEARS. I feel like two days worth of pain is worth five years of relief.

I think she keeps lying to me and canceling or not scheduling doctor’s appointments to get the procedure or a consultation.

She is perfect in every possible way except for sex - and I don’t get the amount of physical touch (just hugs and stuff) I’d like.

I’m falling back in to alcoholism.