How do you deal with people ghosting you?

Hey,

The way I deal with ghosting evolved over time. The first time I got ghosted by someone I was really close to I was very heart broken. At that time losing people affected me really bad, I tried so hard to reach out and see if I did something wrong. Something I may have said or done might’ve made them ghost me. There were times when I was left on read. It used to hurt me so much back then.

After a while I met someone who knew how hard ghosting is for me and they promised me that they’ll never ghost me, but after a few years of friendship they ended up ghosting me but this time something inside me changed. Initially I used to text them to see if they’re just busy, then after a few weeks I realized that I got ghosted again.

Even when I was younger I didn’t wanna lose the people who were close to me so I tried my best to hold the ones I have together but a good number of these friends faded away and became total strangers.

Maybe because of all these I got very desensitized to ghosting ig.

Maybe I don’t get attached to people anymore

Maybe I just don’t care who these people are anymore.

Anyways I think I managed my last ghosting pretty well and got over it.

Anyways this is my ghosting experience and since I’ve got nothing much to do I wanna know how you handle ghosting or if you wanna vent about it you’re welcome to do that as well.