The church is separated
Don't please people. As a christian it is your duty to tell people what is right and wrong and warn them against wrong rather than taking part in their wrong to make them believe that christianity allows their wrong doings.
Ephisians 5:11 “And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them.” Your work as a christian is to bring people closer to God by exposing their works of darkness. The church is now operating among those wolves in sheep's clothing who twist and turn the scripture and mix it with their lies that their listeners find pleasing to ears. In these days it becomes our responsibility to conserve the sound doctrine of the holy Bible and share it with love, compassion and boldness without fearing anyone or anything.
As it is written in the Bible, 2 Timothy 4:3-4 “For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables.” It is happening right now. People don't want to listen to biblical truth because it hurts them. It penetrates through their sick and evil hearts and these so-called righteous people don't like it. They don't like when someone exposes their sins or the way they live which is ungodly and unrighteous.
A man of God is someone who walks by the spirit and allows God to do his will. He lives by the word of God and preaches it as it is without making his silly assumptions in the segments he doesn't understand. And most people do not listen to such man. They call him insecure. Very wrong choice of words for someone who does everything according to the will of God even when he is unsure of the result. But people don't listen. They want weak teachers who can't accept the exact truth of the bible just like their weak audience. They want someone who twists and turns a verse and present it in such a way that allows them to get drunk in parties, to watch movies and shows, listen to secular music, do all sorts of weird dance styles, practice yoga, celebrate meaningless days, boast on their power, on their money, that allows them to participate in trends, play video games, and do all that stuff that is right with the world. They want to participate in all worldly things because they think that just by having a Christian label on it makes it right for them. It might make it right for them but not for God. They forget about James 4:4 “You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God.” They want to participate in all things that non believers do to make their life satisfied, even when Christ himself said in, John 15:16, “You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you.” They don't understand that the church has been chosen by God to bear the righteous fruit not to take part in the unfruitful works of the unrighteous. We are called to be holy and expose these evil things rather than doing them ourselves.
Leviticus 20:26 “You shall be holy to me, for I the Lord am holy and have separated you from the peoples, that you should be mine.” We as Christians are called to be the holy people of God and so we must live with holiness. The people of God do what God says and how God says not what the world says. The people of God live by the will of God making sure the Lord is served. They don't serve the world, they go against the world to serve the Lord. If we call ourselves people of God we are to live like people of God rather than people of this world. Stop partying, spend time with God instead, stop watching movies and shows, watch bible studies, stop listening to secular music, listen to gospel songs and psalms and let your body flow with joy in the praise of God, stop practicing yoga, instead meditate on the holy word of God, don't celebrate meaningless days like Valentine's day, father's day, mother's day, sister's day, brother's day, pride day, easter day, christmas day, even your birthday but celebrate the days that are declared by the Lord, the feasts of the Lord, passover, Sukkot, don't boast on your power and money, boast on your weakness, don't participate in worldly trends blindly, but go against them because you are separated from the world, don't play video games, not even christian ones, play real games, participate in outdoor games.
You have to sacrifice these things in order to truly live like how God wants you to live. Don't listen to those weak teachers and their teachings, they dont always come by preaching mystical doctrines, they also use biblical references to support their claims. The one who sacrificed himself for you, sacrifice your old life for him so you can enter in that new life that he offers but you should also be careful by knowing that it is not going to be all sunshine and rainbows, you will be tested every day but God will be with you. A non satisfied life with God is still better than a satisfied but unholy life without God. This is not our time to be glorified or be happy, this is the beginning of our trials, this is the time of our tests and tribulations and to serve God and preach and wait patiently for our Lord and saviour to come in his complete glory and then will be the time of church's glory.