Dating in modern times for a 30's guy

Naa koy question BTW. Bitaw fellow guys nga taga Cebu. Dali ra ba mo makakita ug ka date karon? Especially if nag edad ug 30 up?

Mao ni ako sitwasyon....

I believe my last relationship kay 4 months ra nagdugay. That was last 2018, I moved on now of course. I stopped dating na since then because I found my insecurities and things lacking about myself too disturbing. It is when I realized that I needed to change myself and find myself first. When I graduated, mao gihapon, nagkawala na ako gana sa dating gyud o relationships.

Moving forward to present. I am curious, with my age 36 kung preferable pa ba ko? I am not macho, I have fats stored in my body especially in my belly. I smoke and I am not accomplished yet. My looks are below average...

I hope someone could advise me... Thank you!