The loneliness behind being Catholic in your 20s

I’ve been reflecting a lot lately on how isolating it can feel to be a practicing Catholic in your 20s. It seems like most people my age are either completely secular or only loosely affiliated with the faith, while I’m here trying to live out my beliefs in a world that doesn’t always seem to understand them.

Don’t get me wrong, I love my faith. But sometimes, it feels incredibly lonely. I see people forming deep friendships in college or work, yet I struggle to find others who share my values and worldview. It seems like people now a days are only interested on the worst things, I don’t want to do those things only to fit in and have friends.

So, where do we find friends? Where do we meet other Catholics who are serious about their faith but also just… normal, fun, and relatable? I know there are young adult groups and online communities, but it still feels like a challenge to find real, lasting friendships or romantic relationship.

For those of you who have felt the same way—how have you built a solid Catholic community? Any advice for someone navigating this season of life?