Being a SAHM or Working?

I’m 24 and finishing my grad program. Is it wrong of me to want to be a SAHM even though I have a masters?

I know in today’s age a lot of couples want to both work after having a family due to finances, but is there anyone out there who does it with one single income?

This guy I’m talking to wants me to work part time to bring two incomes, and I stay home to have 5 or more kids and homeschool them. I am not sure about the idea of having 5 or more kids, it’s scary and I don’t know why.

He’s coming from a good place saying he doesn’t want me to go insane and have an escape through work. But why would I go somewhere it’s more stressful? Or maybe I would like to go back…? I don’t know. It’s a lot of pressure. I just want the choice and not be forced to go back (which now he’s talking about 2 incomes even if it’s very little)

It sort of feels like a business transaction. Does that make sense?

I used to think I wanted to go back to work and maybe I will (or will not). I feel like I’m not meant to work out side of the home nor do I feel like I’d be a good wife or mom (because I don’t know how to cook or clean very well); but I’d very much rather be at home with my family than an work.

Has anyone felt like this before? Feels like I’m the only one.

Edit:

I think I will meet with him to clear things up. There is a lot of confusion going on an and I may be best to meet and discuss with him. What do you think?💭