Tired of dating

I’m 28F who recently came out of a toxic relationship. I have had little luck finding love again. CM is honestly a nightmare for me. I’m not attracted to the ones who send me messages. The ones that I like barely respond. Offline, there are mostly secular men who laugh at the idea of saving for marriage. They feel I will never get married this way. I feel so confused. I’m definitely going to take a break and take my mind off dating for a while but I feel like I have to single for a long time if things continue like this. What do you think?