Are we all "projecting"?

For all who listened to today's episode yet, Alex says that if one refuses to talk about one's sexual past as respect to their partner, it's because they're deeply insecure and or misogynistic. This might be a hot take but just because we're in 2023 doesn't mean that all respect flies out the window. You can still have some respect towards your partner without it being misogynistic. We have advanced a lot as women but this whole feminist thing now turned into let's just be free without any boundaries. I think Alex is wrong basically. Sorry for long post. Just had to get it out.