I won the “my trauma is bigger than your trauma” competition

I met with an old friend and she kept saying I should forgive my parents and talk to them. I was getting the gaslight bingo, including how her trauma is bigger than mine but she managed to get over it. I said there's no competition, and these things should not be compared. Then she said "well I used to find my dad drunk on the streets when I was 8 years old, surely you were better off". I said "I was getting raped at that age, and my mom couldn't care less". Well that was the end of it and she decided I won ... I fee so "lucky"...!