Feeling much better after almost 3 months , no More breakup subreddit xD

4 years relationship she broke up , me over 30.

What I learned:

• ⁠You Need to accept the break up (very important) • ⁠if u want to reach out do it , but After 2 Weeks, because u give another Person to think about ur relationship and if the attempt didnt worked, then no More contact. Its another Person Turn. • ⁠you will Suffer and you will think about lot of things like…what did I do, I Should have done this and that…I will be Alone forever and Never gone find like him or her …she will find better ….its ok its normal …

What to do now….

4-6 Weeks (depend) you will Suffer , you need to accept the pain and go throw all the struggle. You need to talk to your friends, if u don't have true friends, talk to chat gpt(no worrys I did too).

Think about the relationship, what was wrong, write it down, it was very important to me, to accept my failure, to do better in future.

After that start doing some new shit, write down your biggest issues mine was Anger and anxiety.

So I started meditation, reading, and gym is very important to me now...listen to Podcast and write down all the things you wanna change and to do.

And go out. You will think about her sometimes, but imagine you will find also a right person.

TIME will heal your heart and all the things I wrote above will change your mind

One more thing whoever you are and whatever you did(except cheater lol), I know your not a bad person, sometime we are just different and we will find our life partner, be a good person and you will a find a person like you.

See yaaa,