Any anime or manga that does gay representation right?

So far I've watched Given, Twilight out of Focus, and i just watched Stranger by the Shore. I loved Twilight out of Focus because the characters were explicitly queer and it was just all fluffy and nice.

Given destroyed me, but it was beautifully done and really did well with the gay and bi characters. As a gay guy, this one stood out the most to me. It felt real and didn't shy away from covering other topics like toxic relationships and Grief. Stranger by the Shore was great at first, the animation was pretty and I thought it was going to be similar to Given in terms of grappling with grief. But then they introduced the ex fiance and the story went down the drain after that. I was really disappointed.

So I'm looking for any BL manga and anime that does representation right. And isn't hand waved away or following any of the "I'm into women but like you" type of tropes.