Any hairstyles besides dreads that look good with 4c hair Having trouble accepting my hair.😔

I literally feel like my waves are garbage compared to other guys with hair types that have more curl length. Online it's always the 4b and 4a waves that get the most recognition and people think they look good but people always overlook or hate on 4c waves 😭😭

I go to school I'm in my senior year now and I get some compliments every now and then but sometimes it be sounding hella condescending, but lately people been calling my waves "baby waves" or "shores" and it was a group of girls that even said "you should grow your hair out you'd look nice" basically indirectly telling me to quit waves and I'm on the verge of doing so.😔

I literally just wanna be handsome I'm so tired of being ugly, I'm tired of the condescending compliments from dudes, I'm tired of females laughing at me and talking about me, and I'm tired of people just hating in general when I put so much effort into looking the way I do when will I be good enough??😭