Is homophobia abuse?

Hey so i’ve grown up in a completely conservative christian homophobic environment, and i figured out im bi 2 years ago now. my dad is mad at me because i’m kind of dismissive towards my family (not saying bye, quiet usually etc) but that’s because of reasons i mentioned before. i’m wondering if homophobia, just having the view and teaching it to all your children is considered abuse? i seriously cant wait to get away from my family and it doesn’t help that i’m in a christian school too. thanks