29F in Bangalore and rebuilding my life 🤫

Hey everyone! I know some people might joke about this, but honestly, I don’t care. This is my only way to reach out, so here goes!

My life kind of fell apart recently—my ex promised me marriage, then ghosted me and left me completely alone. On top of that, I lost my job. Friends who were originally his friends have sided with him and started avoiding me, and now, I’m just… here.

I’ve always been that chubby girl with specs and bangs sitting in a corner, minding her own business. 🎮 I love board games and gaming, 🚗 long drives, 🐶 spending time with my dog, and exploring new hobbies. Right now, I’m in the middle of a major transformation—physically and mentally (yes, full revenge body mode 💪).

🌟 What I’m Looking For 🌟 I’d love to meet new platonic friends (both girls & guys) who are also in their 30s and struggling to find their social circle. If you don’t have much of a life outside work and want to connect with someone who gets it, I’d love to be friends!

🔹 What I’m NOT looking for: 🚫 Anything romantic or physical—just pure friendships. 🚫 People with hidden agendas. I’m still healing, and I want to break out of toxic cycles, not repeat them.

🌿 A few more things about me: • I smoke cigarettes but I’m actively trying to quit 🚭 • I don’t drink alcohol anymore (occasional & very specific liquor only) 🍷 • 420-friendly 🌱

💌 If you’ve been through heartbreak and have any advice on healing & rebuilding, I’d love to hear it. More than anything, I want to come out of this stronger and post an update one day saying that I truly fixed myself for good.

If you relate to any of this, drop a comment or DM me! Let’s build a small, wholesome friend group together. ❤️