Shit people say to pregnant people

My top 3: 1) are you sure there is only one in there? You’re really big 2) oh your only this far along? And this big already? Wow 3) (after telling how far I am) oh that means you have 4 months to go. Ma’am I’m struggling don’t tell me how months I have to go.

I’m so uncomfortable. And I have so long to go. Pregnancy with a toddler is BRUTAL