Don't know what to do
I am feeling a bit sick in my stomach right now after what I just learned about the girl I am dating. Idk if this is shallow but for context I was in a relationship with a borderline woman for 2 years. Which was absolutely up and down and by the end it completely ruined me. I don't necessarily want to get into that but basically after that relationship I said never again.
2 years later I have healed and better and ready to date again. I have been on dates and had girlfriends since but nothing serious until now where I met this girl who had completely swept me off my feet. Everything has been tremendous and it's like she's literally my perfect person and the one I have been waiting for.. We share so many interests, she's funny as hell and absolutely drop dead gorgeous. We have had no problems since we met but today I asked her if she has any mental illnesses because I told her I have adhd and she as you would expect from me writing this post said she is borderline.
Now I'm at a crossroads because my heart is absolutely enamored with this woman but my brain knows where this could possibly go from my experience with my ex. Another part of me says that is shallow as fuxk and everyone is different and I shouldn't base the actions of someone else on her. What the fuxk do I do here? Do I really break up with her just because of her mental diagnosis or do I stay because she has only been everything I can ask for in a partner so far..
Idk im very confused sad and frustrated. I finally thought I found the one and now here I am. Can someone help talk me through this? I'm lost rn