You sure they’re incapable of a healthy, happy and thriving relationship?

My "ex" left me for a chick briefly, that lasted 1 month. Anyways, I reached out to this chick, regarding ex, for closure, as ex most likely is a narcissist, and a very psychotic one.

So anyways, she gave me closure -- but she she left me on delievered.

I kid you not, out of curiosity, she reposts a lot of BPD content & about having BPD (via her Tik Tok).

I'm so thrown off though because. She seems to be in a very happy & loving relationship with her partner they're slightly just past the 1 year mark.

There doesn't seem to be abuse, or any unhinged behaviour?

When I briefly spoke to her, before being left on delivered. She seems quite nice? And not toxic at all?

She also seems to have tons of friends, and so forth and "ex" also verbally abused her too which she responded with, "you're scaring me" and didn't act unhinge at all.

Her old reposts on TT was a lot about BPD, being psycho, but like I said she seems lovely, acts lovely, has so many friends?

So like...?

Some of them do thrive and seem fine?