Answering to the million dollar question

I very often see posts dedicated to this aspect or others that in some way relate to it: is it possible to have a stable relationship with a BpD partner?

Well...First of all, it should be noted that it is a paradox to mention "stability" in relation to the borderline personality disorder that implies dysregulation and chaos.

In this regard, what, at best, can be achieved is a surrogate of stability since - beyond miracles - it is necessary to actively participate in the psychological health of the sick partner, investing one's own, with all the risks involved. A lifetime of walking on eggshells, that some of you will find more robust, others more fragile.

Beware, statistics tell us that pseudo-normal and long-term relationships with a BpD are possible, but they are exceptions! If you feel lucky or special enough to consider yourself that 1 in a million, go all the way, keeping in mind that you can lose everything, including yourself on this journey.

No one here is spreading the stigma, BpD is a tragic disease.

It is pure and simple realism, relationships between neurotypicals are already fragile, imagine those with mentally disordered people.