Dating someone with autism

Hello everyone. As my title says, I was wondering how many of you dated someone on the spectrum? How was it? Because for me personally it is very challenging and no matter how much I try to read and research, I feel so lost and defeated at times. I’ll add that I’m on therapy, working on myself and generally acting in the most healthy way ever when it comes to relationships and my history with it.

So I would appreciate if someone could tell me how they cope with it, differences between them, how do they control their bpd in whole process etc. thank you all and happy new year ❤️