How do other woman always look so put together?

I feel like a troll dressing as a woman...

I don't understand it. Clothes always seem to fit them, Hair always perfect, the way they're able to carry themselves. I just idk they always look so feminine and clean.

And I genuinely do feel like I always look messy especially with curly hair where idk how to style cope with it as it's my biggest sensory problem. I never look truly feminine I feel like I'm faking it when I try and they can tell.