Women over 35, what's something you care about much less now compared to your 20s?

Turning 35+ felt like flipping a switch for me. Things that once stressed me out like worrying about what others think or chasing impossible standards have started to fade into the background. Now, I'm more focused on personal growth, authenticity, and genuine relationships.

I'm curious: what have you stopped caring so much about as you've gotten older? I'd love to hear your wisdom!

EDIT: You all are amazing and thank you for all the thoughtful answers - I am finding all your answers so honest and inspiring!