Why do *some* men enjoy sexualizing women, but take issue when the woman owns her sexuality

Empahsis on some; not a femcel, just something I've noticed. If this title did trigger you, I encourage you to introspect.

I ask this as I've spoken to a handful of men throughout my life who emphasized how much they detest sites where women sell their content. However, when I checked these men's following on instagram (for ex), it was all women with sexualized accounts. These types of men would also always check out girls and rate them, but as soon as a woman wore something revealing or showed her figure, they referred to her as a slut. With no judgement, why?

I don't engage in any of the aforementioned behavior (but again, with no judgement towards women who do)

EDIT: I find this also applies to any societal advantages as well. Some men create power imbalances to prey on young women, however, when the woman takes advantage of her being a woman and uses her feminity to climb the ladder (maybe in a corporate setting), this triggers those men.