Men of Reddit, what is intimidating about women through your eyes?

First time posting in this sub and I'm on mobile so I apologize in advance. I (30F) am having a hard time dating. A little back story about myself. I have no kids (nor do I want any) a great job, pay for my own belongings. I'm interested in sports, video games and cars but I also like going shopping and being girly too. I'm good cook, clean house, I'm not an unattractive woman, somewhat outgoing personality yada yada... Point is I feel like I have a lot going for me but it's hard for me to date, I don't know if I'm intimidating the men I'm attracted to or what. What are some things you find intimidating or off putting about women? Do you have any advice on how to approach men?