Men: what kind of conversation/flirting do you find most attractive?

I am naturally a socially awkward person. When I meet someone new, especially a man, I can typically go through the initial questions of what’s your name? Where are you from? What do you do? Then, it comes to an awkward natural pause where the person I’m talking to just walks away. I am trying to better myself and be more engaging and to be more conversationally attractive to men. I highly envy girls that can just talk to anybody, that are bubbly, where you can see the men just look at her with a smile. Someone magnetic that just draws in her audience. How do I do that? Do you have any tips for a girl like me?