Dear Women of Reddit. What are your thoughts on this?

I know for sure that you are traumatised and have a difficult time dealing with creeps online including on reddit. And I do acknowledge and understand the nasty things you unexpectedly receive. I apologise on behalf of such men.

But, my question is how do an average person like me build friendships here? I never dm'd anyone here. I am more worried about being judged as a creep. But then I find posts about people making friends or dating through reddit. How does that happen?

I am not interested about NSFW stuff if that would be of concern to some.

Looks like its just a lonely place for people like me. Girls receive alot of dms, attention and many unexpected things. But for us the game is difficult.

Any thoughts?

Ps - "the game is difficult" - I am talking about the dating situation. Peace out ladies.