What was the moment that made you start distancing yourself from your father?

For me it was couple of awkward moment. First, my dad saw my internet history - he didn’t yell or punish me, just an uncomfortable conversation about it. Then there was a time he caught me drunk, again no harsh word, he make me fall sleep nicely.

He handled both the situation nicely but somehow it did had kinda negative impact on our dynamic, i felt that unspoken distance between us. Anyone else have moment like this?