Does anybody feel like gay sex spaces... kinda suck now?

I am not trying to be negative. I am all-in and grateful for the advances the gay community has made.

With that said, I can't help but feel that gay sex spaces are lacking compared to .. before? The 1970s sounded wild. The bathhouses, the sex clubs, the cruising in parks, piers, public.

No way do the stupid apps compare. And if you're a man who likes going to cruise/kink-bars vs. Drag or RPDR viewings... things seem lacking.

Is it just me?