Is waiting a month safe (female, 30, autism/ocd diagnosis)

(female, 30, autism/ocd diagnosis)

Is waiting a month safe?

After advisement from askdocs and dermatology questions i booked an appointment about a weird mole I have. My doctor thinks it is fine but referred me to do a full body check after finding three red moles on my back (?). He said "just to be safe" I'm still not sold, some people seemed really convinced that my mole could be bad and he didn't do more than look at it. Is it safe to wait?