When I was 14 a gynecologist told my mom she could tell I wasn’t a virgin, even though I was. What was she talking about?

When I was 14 I thought I lost a tampon up my hoo-ha, so off to the ER we went. They told us they were bringing in a female gynecologist from somewhere else in the hospital to help since the only one in the ER department at the time was a dude, so maybe she was pissed already? I’m not sure.

Anyways, she asks if I’m sexually active, I say no, she does the exam and there’s no tampon, but I get some antibiotics. Cool. My mom is sitting outside the room and she asks me very seriously if I’m sure I’m not sexually active. I tell her I’m not, because I’m not, and she asks me two more times. She looks visibly pissed off because she thinks I’m lying, and tells me she has to go talk to my mom about something.

On the way home my mom is screaming bloody murder, I legitimately thought I was in danger. The doctor told her she could tell I wasn’t a virgin and she thought my mom had a right to know I was lying. She said she could tell because my vagina wasn’t shaped like a virgin’s? No mention of a hymen, just… a shape? And she was a doctor, I was a fourteen year old, my mom believed her.

So my question is… what the fuck was she talking about? I thought vaginas didn’t change shape? What could she have seen that would have made her so sure I wasn’t a virgin even though I was?